tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913431369918059916.post7989048937045478559..comments2023-06-14T05:30:03.404-07:00Comments on My CRON experiment: Today's Dose of Gratuitous RomanceSarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10589360738483629810noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913431369918059916.post-51474624085225148782007-07-09T20:18:00.000-07:002007-07-09T20:18:00.000-07:00Hi SaraBeing an anglophile I'm imagining you are d...Hi Sara<BR/>Being an anglophile I'm imagining you are describing a wedding scene from "Four Weddings and a Funeral" or "Howard's End" for your ideal wedding. Your wedding will be beautiful, rain or shine.<BR/>Cheers,<BR/>ArturoArturohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10971352220152467379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913431369918059916.post-68693927346824138562007-07-08T05:11:00.000-07:002007-07-08T05:11:00.000-07:00It is so true what Robin said.My husband and I wer...It is so true what Robin said.<BR/><BR/>My husband and I were married in the registry office. We didn't want to make a big deal out of it at all, and basically just got married for the formality and to avoid complications while travelling together.<BR/><BR/>But the moment was so emotional and beautiful that I will remember it forever. It was unexpected and overwhelming, we were both in tears, and the witnesses who we had never even met until that day were obviously moved by our demonstration of love and commitment to each other.<BR/><BR/>Best wishes for you both.Mizpah Matushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10857392492172698335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913431369918059916.post-45793741664322933452007-07-07T06:13:00.000-07:002007-07-07T06:13:00.000-07:00Thank you, Robin; you are completely right. Just ...Thank you, Robin; you are completely right. Just what I needed to read.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10589360738483629810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913431369918059916.post-50044057147887689662007-07-07T04:40:00.000-07:002007-07-07T04:40:00.000-07:00Sara,I know you read this earlier on my blog but I...Sara,<BR/><BR/>I know you read this earlier on my blog but I thought it might be helpful to post it again:<BR/><BR/>The wedding is one day of your life. Sure, have a big party if that's what you want. Spend gobs of money creating whatever kind of day you like. Getting married *is* a big deal. Just remember, staying married is an infinitely bigger deal.<BR/><BR/>When my husband and I got married, we decided the wedding itself wasn't so important to us. The important thing was the promise we made to each other. And I think that's just the right attitude.<BR/><BR/>It doesn't matter whether you're wearing a $2 dress you bought at the bargain basement or a $2000 gown. All that matters is the love and commitment you bring to your marriage. The strength of those bonds will be tested in big and small ways each and every day so in a way, every day is a wedding of sorts - a renewal of your vows to one another.<BR/><BR/>So much has happened in the six years since my husband and I bound our lives together. We bought our first home, switched careers and brought two beautiful little girls into this world. The responsibilities of work and parenthood and taking care of a home have sometimes created distance between us. And each of us has changed - we are not the same people we were in the clouds above Las Vegas. What holds us together through all this is our deep love, respect, admiration and commitment for each other.<BR/><BR/>Houses are bought and sold, jobs are lost and won, even children grow up and leave us one day. But this beautiful, wonderful human being loves me so much he has promised to be my constant companion until the day death separates us. And I love him so much I can't imagine my life without him. This is all that matters.<BR/><BR/>Don't forget what matters, my dear. <BR/><BR/>And try not to stress too hard.<BR/>RRobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02198930135149227434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913431369918059916.post-25588333808358769962007-07-07T03:06:00.000-07:002007-07-07T03:06:00.000-07:00I'm sure your day will be beautiful.I'm sure your day will be beautiful.Mizpah Matushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10857392492172698335noreply@blogger.com